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Christian Dating Guide

The Dearest Christian dating online dating guidelines below have been put together to help you avoid uncomfortable situations and other problems. Please read carefully:

Christian dating guideline 1: Remain annonymous.
Don't give out any of your personal information, including your email address, ICQ, postal. You should use our online email first. Get a good idea of what kind of person you are conversing with before you reveal anything of your personal information. You should never give out your last name, home address, phone number, work information, or any other identifying information anywhere in the system. Ask a lot of questions and please take your time.

Christian dating guideline 2: Take your time
If your are planning to meet that person, you should consider using a pay phone first. This will prevent your mobile number from being revealed. A phone call will tell you many things about that person. Keep your number anonymous if possible, and use the conversation to find out more about the person to make sure you want to meet. Also call a coworker, a friend, or a family member. Safety is number one. The more people you are with, the safer you will be. Only share your phone number when you feel absolutely sure. If you are being pressured to meet, take your time.

Christian dating guideline 3: Don't rush to meet
Many times our excitement about a person makes us impatient.........patience is a fruit of the Holy Spirit! One of the things about meeting somebody online is that you can gain so much information about a person before you feel you need to meet. You have NO obligation to meet anyone, so take your time.

Christian dating guideline 4: Check these warning signs.
Inconsistent information, avoiding questions, does not match profile provided, behavior such as anger, physically inappropriate comments, intense frustration or attempts at pressuring or controlling you are warning signs. Stay away from people like this, just ignore them - even if they call themselves 'christians'!

Meeting the first time, never go alone. Take a friend, always! Choose the safest possible environment. Also, tell someone where you are going and when you will be back. Give your dates name and telephone number or any other information to that person. Go somewhere that is familiar to you. Be brief in your meeting.

Christian dating guideline 5: Use your own transportation
When your meeting someone, you should use your own transportation - always. Don't allow your date to make the arrangements. If the location where you are meeting seems unsafe, awkward, or inappropriate - go back to your hotel. Make sure a friend or family member knows your plans and has your contact information. Always take a cell phone with you.

Christian dating guideline 6: How to get out of a fix.
Just leave. Its always better to be safe than sorry. Your safety is obviously more important than worrying about embarrassment, your behavior, or what another person may think of you.

Christian dating guideline 7: Pray.
Alway pray and be sensitive to His guidance and leading.

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